Borderline Orgasm Denial - Simple Tips for Successful Orgasm Denial for Your Man
Borderline orgasm denial, or teasing and refusal, is one of the most difficult aspects of male chastity.

I admit, I love it.

I love that I get to decide when my husband, John, has an orgasm... Or even if he climaxes.

I love the thrill of not knowing if he'll orgasm tonight; I also love the thrill of knowing he'll have to wait a long time (we recently completed a full year of strict orgasm denial with him, along with lots of teasing and pushing).

Still, it's very difficult to practice teasing and rejection.

If you haven't heard of teasing and refusal, it's easy to explain.

Your partner gets you to the edge of ejaculation and then tells you to stop.

That's it. You're not allowed to ejaculate.

You are not allowed to ejaculate, you are only allowed to get turned on.

There are also many creative ways to do this.

She may make you masturbate while she watches; she may ask you to have sex with a pocket pussy (a favorite of mine and John's); she may even go so far as to pleasure you with oral sex until you're on the very edge, and then she'll stop abruptly and not allow you to have an orgasm.

So, now you can see why this is a hard game to play.

In fact, sometime in the past, we've lost the plot and he ended up cumming for me.

It's not that he wanted to (well, of course he wanted to, but you know what I mean - he wanted to cum, but he was eager to deny it).

And we both enjoyed enjoying the game.

The pleasure of it is intense and mind-blowing.

You can practice teasing and rejection with your lover at any time, but I'd recommend starting slowly.

Teasing and rejection is not easy for beginners. In fact, it's not easy for any man.

I also don't recommend doing this every night unless you're really serious and your man really enjoys the game.

There's nothing dangerous about it, but you can get a serious blue ball with teasing and rejection.

In fact, your whole body becomes sensitive to touch, your nipples are especially sensitive, and you just want to cum.

That said, at one point I did tease and deny John for 31 nights straight, just as a challenge. That was fun (but very hard on him).

On the bright side, it was very, very pleasurable for him. When you're practicing male chastity, pleasing you is the only thing on his mind, but when you're playing the tease and deny game, it intensifies.

Imagine what it's like for him to be so close to ejaculating and not (or maybe never) be allowed to do so.

Your wife or lover holds the key to your release, but she's denying you because you haven't met her needs. It really makes you want to satisfy her.

This is what is constantly churning in the mind of a man in chastity.

Before you try it, make sure you talk to your beloved about the game of tease and rejection.

While it's not about the thrill of her abusive heroine, it's about her controlling your orgasm, and some women need time to warm up to the idea.

Also, decide how many teases and rejections you want to try each week.

You might decide you can do this every night, or, you might decide you just want to try it every few days. It's a personal choice between you and your partner.

Feel free to add any tricks that drive you crazy to make it better.

Most importantly, make sure he makes an effort not to cum ...... But also remember that everyone makes mistakes once in a while, and you and your beloved can laugh about it after a night of lovemaking.

At the end of the day, it's all about having fun and knowing the facts.

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Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which has quickly become the Internet's leading source of sound, factual and practical information about male chastity.

She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years, and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding, but often misunderstood, way of life.

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