Correct choice of spouse will make people happy, but if there are some wrong psychology, it will lead to bad results. Which psychology should not be chosen? For the choice of marriage object, everyone has their own requirements and standards, but the gender health experts should remind men and women that there is bad psychology when choosing a spouse, then it will hinder your real feelings, So when choosing a mate, don't appear the following kinds of psychology.
I. Career oriented mate selection psychology
In fact, everyone is willing to pay attention to this point and hope that their target can become a person with strong sense of career and make great achievements in work and career. However, due to the limitations of various factors, at present, there are not many people with this psychology of mate selection, but there are still many people in the intellectual group. They regard work achievements and career progress as the greatest happiness in life. Take the other party's ambition and fighting spirit as an important weight on the balance of mate selection, and place the happiness of love in the struggle of career. This kind of love is eternal because of the eternal nature of business.
2. The psychology of mate selection in pursuit of spiritual satisfaction
With the progress of social civilization and the improvement of people's cultural quality, there are more and more people with this kind of mate selection psychology. They focus on each other's thoughts and feelings, moral quality, personality hobbies, etc., and pursue mutual spiritual communication and emotional harmony. It doesn't matter if you can get pleasure and satisfaction in spirit, even if the other economic conditions and physical conditions are not good. This kind of love based on spirit is noble, and many beautiful love stories belong to the pursuit of this kind of love psychology.
3. The psychology of choosing spouse with money as the highest priority
This kind of psychology is common, especially in economically backward areas. They put each other's economic situation in the first place, and their marriage is to get a comfortable nest for them to eat, wear, live and play, or rely on for survival. This kind of marriage based on material and money is not reliable, because the economic conditions can be changed. It often loses the attraction of cohesion of two people's hearts due to the loss of favorable material conditions of each other, so it has to part ways
The correct concept of mate selection, good psychology of mate selection, to choose a good partner, perhaps you do not realize. Psychological and emotional existence, but some people think. If you want to better manage your relationship and marriage, you must fully understand these relationships, so as to help you find the most suitable partner for you.