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An emotionally healthy child will successfully cope with the ever-increasing demands and workload not only during the period of preparation for school, but also during the whole process of learning.

Such a child in most cases will safely and independently overcome age crises.

For the occurrence and maintenance of a favorable emotional psychological climate for the child, parents need to be able not only to determine, but also to correct the condition of the preschooler in time.

The main recommendations for parents, which will contribute to the favorable development of the emotional sphere of life of young children, can serve as the following specific advice:

-Develop vocabulary. This means to teach them to name their feelings and emotions. Parents, in turn, need to pay attention to their own feelings, read literature on the topic, and be able to recognize other people's feelings. Introduce into the child's vocabulary as many words as possible for different emotions and feelings.

-Teach children to recognize the difference between emotions and actions.

-Explain to the child that feelings cannot be good or bad, but that actions can be bad and should be responsible for them.

-Leave children the right to show their feelings and emotions. Under no circumstances should they be suppressed and ignored. It is important to help the preschooler assert the right to his feelings, this can be achieved simply by listening carefully to him and thinking together about his emotions. One should not condemn the child for any of his/her feelings, one should not be aloof, remain indifferent, evaluate, since feelings belong only to him/her.

-When discussing with your child his/her feelings, do not solve the problem for him/her, but try to explain the reason for his/her feelings and emotions - this will help him/her cope on his/her own.

-Suggest different ways for the child to "get a grip". Children can let their feelings out in different ways: physically, creatively and in other ways. When different ways have been tried, it is important to ask which one he prefers. If you constantly tell your baby, "Express your feelings with words," then when he becomes a teenager, he will easily cope with his emotional state. You can offer him different ways to get out of the state of emotional tension, but let him make the choice himself.

-It is necessary to be consistent. Some situations are resolved quickly, others take time. One should not lose sight of the goal that is set for the child and, of course, always celebrate the progress he or she has made.

Managing emotions is a natural aspect of children's mental development. If this does not happen, there is a disturbance of emotional regulation, which can lead to various behavioral disorders that require intervention by a psychologist and lengthy remedial work.

The emotional well-being of the child is the way to successful interaction with the world, to the development of a harmonious personality. To achieve this goal, children simply need smart, benevolent, loving parents who will not only impart the necessary knowledge, teaching kids emotional intelligence but also prepare them for independent life. Good luck to you!

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