As you prepare to gain custody of your kid in court, there are several issues to consider. Fathers have a greater difficulty getting custody than mothers, but this isn't always the case. Here is a child custody checklist to assist you in preparing for court.

1. Hire a really good child custody attorney. Make sure they are experienced in your specific needs and get references.

2. Make a list of your ex-wife's weaknesses. This will only help you in your case against her. If you have facts about her that will prove her to be an unfit mother, and then, by all means, use them to your advantage.

3. Make a list of your ex-wife's strengths. This may sound obviously odd at first, but it will help you prepare to go against her in court. If you know her strengths, you'll know how to counter them in court.

4. Get a list of witnesses that could testify on your behalf (basically telling the judge how you are a great father). Also, get a list of witnesses to testify against your ex-wife if need be. If you don't feel she's a fit mother, then have others prove your case for you.

5. Decide if now is the right time to start dating someone else. The divorce process is a long one, and sometimes the judge will frown on you if you already have a live-in girlfriend.

6. Make sure you have health and life insurance in place for your child, and make sure you are the one that took out the policies. This will show the judge you are the responsible parent.

7. Sit down with your child custody attorney and make a list of important things you may not openly share with people; Things like arrests, bankruptcies, affairs, fights, everything. You don't want any surprises in court. If you inform your child custody attorney of these things in advance, he'll be able to work up a defense for them as well.

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