About women's feelings
The number one complaint of women I have seen in sexual counseling is that they have no sexual desire-zipper, disappear, disappear. They told me that they would rather do anything other than sex. Bake 100 cupcakes at midnight, shovel snow or do laundry.

Contrary to the assumptions of many of us, this happens to women of all ages whose love, persistence, and attractiveness to partners are high. For postmenopausal members, this is not just a problem. They feel that their magic has come out of the window, and hot flashes have taken their place. However, this is not always the actual lack of libido. A woman’s lack of physical opening does not necessarily reflect a lack of desire for sex, but a misunderstanding of the way she was opened in the first place. In a universal sexually illiterate world, there are no user manuals to refer to, so how can any woman be expected to know this?

Unlike men, our brains have smaller areas that control sexual desire and sexual behavior. They are also shaped by estrogen instead of testosterone. These two differences require us to hide ourselves every time we look for them in order to refine and seduce our desires and desires.

Women usually start making love out of a desire for intimacy rather than a true physical desire. On the other hand, men are slaves to the symbolic Tom-Tom beat, and have neuroanatomical and chemical effects that can make erections maneuver the boat. Few women realize (never sympathize with it) and mistakenly label male sexuality as their original, uncontrolled and objectionable objectification. On the contrary, men are lucky.

At the same time, women are far away from themselves because they have no propulsion at all, and what actually happened is that women gave up even before they started. When there was no physical arousal in less than a minute or so, the women threw towels in and walked towards the laundry room, lunch or e-mail instead of lying there and coaxing their arousal to surface . Once again, we mistake the idea of ​​lack of feeling for overall lack of interest.

Many women need 5 to 20 minutes of warm-up time before they can begin to feel a clear sense of being opened. These feelings may never happen. I have always held this position myself, so I stayed there just to see what happens. It's not that bad. When making love, your head says, "Go ahead," but your body says, "What are you kidding about now?" When you'd rather watch TV, it's a bit like exercising.

Most people who know about their health go out hiking and are ultimately happy with what they are doing, even if they are not the best hiking. I think sex is no different. So, what should you do if your sexual experience is Type C? No sex police will arrest you and will not expel them from your relationship. Welcome to the Likert scale of human sexual experience. On a scale of 1-5, you either strongly agree that your gender is good, or you strongly disagree. You win some, you lose some. The stakes need not be so high, the only person who can control this is the person who has sex with the other party.

Reduce the pressure on yourself and your partner. Sexual experience is a continuous process, and some experiences are hotter than others. It really is that simple.
Sexual pleasure
Whether we are attracted to the opposite sex, the same sex, or both, the truth is: we have learned how to experience sexual pleasure by understanding our own sexual desires and sexual responses.
Our enjoyment of specific sexual behaviors and customs varies from person to person. No matter what motivates our personal sexual desires or what sexual behaviors we use to satisfy them, we are all sex. How we choose to behave as sex is up to us.

Health benefits
Sexual behavior has been proven to improve sleep habits, reduce stress, and increase happiness. Sexuality is a healthy body function. Our body relies on the chemicals released during orgasm to grow stronger, so a healthy sex life is indeed a part of a healthy body.

How will you experience sexual pleasure?
There is no "right way" to experience sexual pleasure. Start with the rich fantasy life you write in your mind. If you have a partner, he/she may like it as much as you do! Discuss with your partner. Understand that sexual pleasure is a common concern for both parties. Remember, consenting adults can take risks as they wish. And don’t forget that your partner may have a completely different set of favorite stimuli.

Communication is the key
The successful long-term relationship of sexual pleasure is based on communication. Freedom from illness and trust in our partner is the foundation of comfortable, relaxed and healthy sex. Safety, comfort and trust allow us to freely discuss our sexual needs and restrictions with our partners. Be direct! speak loudly!

"I like it, when you touch..."
"I really like..."
"Do you want me to do this..."

Open and frank communication with sexual partners is essential to provide and obtain sexual pleasure.

about you
Everyone has no partners. Not everyone wants a partner. Some people are among partners. The reality is: you don't need a partner to enjoy good sex.

Regular masturbation is fine, even healthy. Orgasm can not only relieve stress, it can also reduce stress. It can also boost the immune system and burn calories! Indulging in any single sexual act will bring the greatest pleasure. It is up to you to decide how or whether to achieve orgasm. As long as there is no danger to you or anyone else, there are no rules, no "right way" to get sexual pleasure.
Having sex with high-quality sex dolls can improve your sex skills and ability to increase your confidence. You can buy a sex doll and upgrade with her. Recently, my friend Awen bought a cheap real sex dolls, which not only can Solving your physical needs can also exercise yourself, so it is not a bad thing. At the same time, there are many types and styles of sex dolls, so you can choose according to the type you like. If I choose, I will choose the Japanese love doll
A satisfying sex life begins with understanding our own sexual needs and responsibilities. After all, we are responsible for our sexual pleasure. Then, we can confirm the needs and responsibilities of our partners.

Sexual health declaration
In 2019, the World Sexual Health Association held its 24th World Congress, and they issued the "Declaration of Sexual Pleasure." You can learn more about it here.