When flirting online you depend on written text. Something that can be considered a curse and a blessing.


Unfortunately, written text is not always interpreted as you intended it to be. On the other hand, however, women love to read between the lines. And when you can get women to read the right thing about you between the lines, flirting online could be a piece of cake for you.


What WhatsApp, SMS, Facebook, Twitter, Email, Tinder, and dating on cuckold sites have in common
We live in a time when we seem to want to do everything via text messages. Many seem to have their smartphone glued to one hand. And with great regularity, messages have to be checked or something has to be answered.


In the meantime, it is even so bad that you can be considered incredibly tough and headstrong if you leave WhatsApp, SMS, Twitter, and Facebook for what it is: nonsense communication.


Nonsense communication that you only spend time on, as soon as you really have nothing left to do that really enriches your life.


Because now be honest with yourself. How often is there between all those messages, in which you also probably spend a large amount of time every day, something that is actually interesting to you? Something you really have to think about. Something that could really help you.


E-mail is also rarely interesting. And the message box on a dating site is only interesting when there is a message waiting for you from a woman you would really like to meet.


But it's just fun, all those messages. And it is often a pleasant form of entertainment.


Hold that thought!


How to flirt most effectively online
Because that is exactly what a woman prefers to receive: fun, entertaining messages that make her laugh. And messages she can tell a friend about. Messages that affect her and make her feel good about herself.


The most important thing is that every word you send a woman is made up of yourself. And tell her something about you. Because nothing makes you more attractive to a woman than words that make her think about you. They make sure she has something to figure out about you. Because women love nothing more than that.


The 4 most important ingredients when flirting with women online are:


Entertainment.
Humour.
Making you feel good.
Sometimes slightly confusing.
When flirting online, you create slight confusion mainly by teasing a woman.


Usually, women are very fond of teasing because they are, as it were, tossed back and forth between different emotions. Moreover, it cannot know whether or not her curiosity is going to be satisfied with a woman in a fun way.


For a woman, teasing is a form of play that tells her that a man likes her and at the same time relaxes her.


And for a woman, a man who seemingly effortlessly makes her relax is wildly attractive and worth his weight in gold.


What to do and leave in text messages
Flirting online via WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, SMS, email, Tinder, or dating site is all the same. Because in all cases you are dealing with text messages. Text messages that we each have to write ourselves. Text messages too, which we write for one purpose only: to get a date with that woman we are sending those text messages to.


As a man, you should never use text messages to just talk. And certainly not to be seen as a form of keeping in touch with a woman. You can if you are in a relationship with her. But definitely not if you're still dating.


As long as you are still dating, every message you send should contribute to seeing the weather and spending time with this woman again.


Contributing can also be: getting to know something about her, which is important to you at the moment. For example for planning a date.


WhatsApp, Facebook, SMS, e-mail, but also Tinder and dating sites are, so to speak, absolutely not intended for just having random conversations. At least not if you want to hit on a woman.


An example of a way of flirting:


What you can use perfectly in text messages when flirting online is: teasing a woman with her curiosity.


When you have a chat conversation with a woman, for example via WhatsApp, you could do the following if she asks you something personal at a certain time.


You could tell her that you are not yet sure whether she deserves the answer. Because you think she hasn't actually been nice to you at all. And that you only give answers to such questions to women who are nice to you.


Usually, a woman will then playfully defend herself and still try to persuade you to answer her question.


You could then say that you do not think it is nice of her that she tries to tempt you to give answers.


And that she should at least come to iron your shirts and cook your favorite food for you to make up for it with you.


After which, after she has responded to that and you teased her a little more, you could suddenly switch back to a more serious conversation. For example, by asking her something you would really like to know about her.


Playing, Teasing, and directing the conversation in any direction you want makes a woman feel very clearly that you are in control, that you determine what happens when it happens, and how it happens. In other words, by interacting with her in this way in text messages, you show a woman your natural masculine leadership.


Showing natural male leadership in every form of interaction with women ensures, among other things, that a woman very quickly feels at ease with you and relaxes. And a man with whom a woman feels comfortable and trusts is an attractive man. A man she would like to date.


In short: if you use text messages for what they are intended, they will certainly contribute to the successful hooking up of a woman.


On the other hand, if you use text messages for things other than quickly finding out something about what is important to you at the moment, flirting, playing around, teasing, and making announcements, chances are that a woman will quickly lose interest in you.