It's always easier to point the finger at someone else. Always. What's difficult is looking in the mirror and realising that you might be the one who has to change. You must first be someone you would love before you can have fantastic connections. Be the mother you'd like to have. Be the girlfriend with whom you'd fall in love. If you are receptive to it, the essential people in your life will assist you in this lifelong process. Stop focusing so much on other people's flaws and instead…