How To Kiss A Man To Make Him Fall In Love Review

We simply cannot get enough love, especially summer love. Maybe it's because summer love feels friendlier when we are walking to the beach carrying a chair, a favorite book and an iPod to keep our own delicious thoughts company. Seriously, don't your olfactory sensibilities become completely engaged with fresh suntan lotion? The smell of Coppertone and I'm 13 all over again.

Summer sea breezes make most of us swoon. Shakespeare's famous, "Shall I compare thee to a summer's day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate" flies to mind. Come on, everyone knows that first scent of the bay driving across a causeway. Everyone knows that sight of swooping gulls welcoming us to summer love and the sound of our own flip flops marching toward a tumbling and tantalizing surf as we step over the shells sprinkled all over the sand dunes. Outside of a summer's natural beauty, I think we enjoy the season because we recall the summer times and loves of our youth. We remember the innocence of pure summer love.

People are happier when they are in love, especially in the summer. Now is there a difference between being in love and feeling that we love someone? Women ask me all the time to explain the difference. Yes, I respond: I'm in love with you has more infatuation and projection attached; I love you has more of day-to-day companionship attached. This isn't just speculation. Dr. Helen Fisher, an anthropologist who studies love, says that each form of love - whether in the summer or not - has an unspoken mystery attached. And a mystery, by its definition, is not to be understood.