Society is more open about sexuality than it was decades ago. Out of ‘norm’ sexual acts are readily accepted, and there are many fetish sites that can meet your needs. Although people are more sexually-positive, you might still never find a partner on mainstream dating sites. You can find a fetish partner on fetish sites when you clearly state your fetish and let the website algorithm find partners who love the specific fetish. Additionally, when you log into the queer and fetish dating sites, you can ask other members if they like what you like also. It feels like a community, and everyone will understand your position, unlike the mainstream dating sites. A simple online search will guarantee many fetish sites, and you can choose from the dating sites.

If you choose to find a fetish partner through fetish sites, it can help if you attend events organized by the websites online. When you join the fetish forums, the key is to speak up about your fetish, as you might meet other people with similar fetish. Fetish forums are a great way to learn and explore and meet prospective partners. However, like the traditional dating sites, you might find scams, and it is wise to be discreet when opening up and do not let members know your whereabouts or share personal information.

If you are not lucky to find a fetish partner online, you can venture at parties, BDMS conventions, or through connections from friends. Finding a fetish partner requires openness, and if you are afraid to share your sexual fantasies, it can be hard to find a partner. In a room of people who are sexual-positive, you can bring up sexual topics which will attract the attention of the people in the room. You might be surprised to find that other people share the same fetish, which is the first step in finding a partner.